Tuesday, October 03, 2023

Obituary - Fishman


Shelley Benita Fishman

December 15, 1948 — May 13, 2023


Shelley Fishman, beloved wife, mother, grandmother and friend passed unexpectedly yet peacefully on May 13. Born and raised in Philadelphia and a graduate of Temple University, she was a life long educator and community advocate, particularly advancing women in leadership roles in professional organizations and politics. She loved her Tampa sports teams, her treasured pets, and most of all, her family and friends. Diagnosed with ALS 6 months ago, in lieu of flowers, you can honor her legacy by making a donation to further research on this devastating disease. [Survived by husband Benjamin. Mother to Seth (Lexie) Fishman in Pennsylvania and Ross (Gina) Fishman in Florida. Grandmother to Ethan and Zoey Fishman. Sister to Mark (Charlotte) Glass in Maryland.]



Source: https://donate.als.org/fundraiser/4712983


Benjamin David Fishman

March 4, 1949 — August 28, 2023


[Former pharmacist and husband of the late Shelley (nee Glass). Survived by sons Seth (Lexie) Fishman and Ross (Gina) Fishman and two grandchildren.]

Obituary - Zeft

Jerome Louis Zeft

July 29, 1943 — January 19, 2023


Jerome L. Zeft, of Philadelphia, age 79, passed away January 19, 2023. Loving son of the late Esther and Morris Zeft. Dear brother of the late Sheldon Zeft. He was loved dearly by his relatives and friends. A Graveside Service will be held Tuesday, January 24, 11AM precisely at King David Memorial Park, Bensalem PA 19020 (Section H) Contributions in his memory may be made to the Kimmel Center www.kimmelculturalcenter.org Shiva will be observed privately.


Source: https://obits.goldsteinsfuneral.com/jerome-zeft

ZEFT JEROME L. Of Philadelphia, age 79, passed away January 19, 2023. Loving son of the late Esther and Morris Zeft. Dear brother of the late Sheldon Zeft. He was loved dearly by his relatives and friends. A Graveside Service will be held Tuesday, January 24, 11 A M. precisely at King David Memorial Park, Bensalem PA 19020 (Section H) Contributions in his memory may be made to the Kimmel Center www.kimmelculturalcenter.org Shiva will be observed privately. www.goldsteinsfuneral.com


Published by The Philadelphia Inquirer on Jan. 23, 2023.

Source: https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/inquirer/name/jerome-zeft-obituary?id=38722642


SHELDON SAUL ZEFT

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania


Sheldon Saul Zeft, on July 21, 2018. Brother of Jerome Zeft. Relatives and friends are invited to Graveside Services Wednesday 11 AM precisely at King David Memorial Park (sec. H), Bensalem, PA. A Memorial Service will also be held at a later date. Contributions in his memory may be made to KenCCID, 9350 Ashton Road, Suite 202, Phila., PA 19114. www.goldsteinsfuneral.com GOLDSTEINS' ROSENBERG'S RAPHAEL-SACKS


Source: https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/sheldon-zeft-obituary?pid=189664088 and https://obits.goldsteinsfuneral.com/sheldon-zeft



Affordable housing for gay seniors opens in Pa. By Kathy Matheson

Source: https://apnews.com/7f83d0af8a0f4135891c78d9ecc22c82

January 14, 2014

Jerry Zeft, 70 Photo: AP Photo


PHILADELPHIA (AP) — Jerry Zeft was so excited to move into his new apartment that he slept on an air mattress for nearly a week while he waited for his bed and other belongings to catch up with him. No matter that he’s 70 years old.

Zeft had landed a coveted spot in a new affordable housing complex for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender seniors in the heart of downtown Philadelphia. Only two other U.S. cities have similar developments.

“I wanted to get into a community that I’m more comfortable in,” Zeft said shortly after picking up the keys to his unit.



This month’s opening of the John C. Anderson Apartments vindicates years of work by supporters who felt gay elders have been marginalized by youth culture, even within LGBT circles.

Experts say gay seniors are less likely than their straight peers to have the financial and family resources to age in homes of their own. Many fear discrimination at traditional elder housing facilities, leading them back into the closet after years of being open.

Philadelphia now joins Los Angeles and Minneapolis as locations with designated gay-friendly, affordable senior housing, collectively offering about 200 units.

Yet advocates say that’s nowhere near enough. Research indicates the number of gay seniors in the U.S. is expected to double to 3 million by 2030.

“It’s quite amazing that we have done so little for seniors to have a place that they can afford and that offers them respect and safety,” said Barbara Satin, an LGBT activist who worked on the 46-unit Minneapolis project.

Although anti-discrimination laws prohibit gay-only housing, buildings can be made LGBT-friendly through marketing and location. The $19.5 million Anderson project, named for a city councilman who fought for gay rights, sits in the affectionately nicknamed Gayborhood. When the leasing office opened last fall, hopeful tenants sat in a block-long line to drop off applications.

Those seniors belong to the generation that blazed a trail for gay rights, said Mark Segal, chairman of the Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld Fund, which spearheaded the development. Yet their activism and openness often cost them both family ties and the opportunity for traditional jobs with retirement benefits, he said.

“Why should people, who were the pioneers of the community, not live with dignity? It’s outrageous,” Segal said. “We have to take care of our own — nobody else is.”

At the 56-unit Philadelphia building, monthly rents range from $192 to $786 based on income, which can’t exceed $33,000 per year. There is a waiting list for lower-tier units, though about a dozen remain at the upper end. Nearly all the residents identify as LGBT.

Two more complexes are under construction in Chicago and San Francisco. The Hirschfeld fund is interested in building units in New York, Segal said.



The housing problem may ease for future generations as legalized gay marriage allows same-sex spouses to inherit a partner’s property and benefits, said Catherine Thurston, senior program director at New York-based Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders. However, she said many current seniors aren’t married and don’t own their homes.

Thurston also noted that it’s important to offer seniors more than just a place to live — they need activities and social services “to connect them to their community.”

The Anderson apartments has partnered with the nearby William Way LGBT Community Center to provide residents with counseling, programs and events. That’s another reason Jerry Zeft decided to sell his house in the city’s Oxford Circle section and move downtown.

“I don’t like staying home. I enjoy getting out,” Zeft said. “And this is the perfect place to get out in this area.”

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